A "therapist" (I use quotations since your LCM is not a license therapist) should never upset you so much that you have to leave work and go home and drink yourself into a numb state. My previous T (who was a licensed therapist) treated me very similar to the way LCM treats you. I got very attached to her. My T had ******* up boundaries, lied to me several times (saying that my program T never contacted her when I know she did, said she would give me homework on certain things and never did, ect.) didn't take my suicidal ideation seriously. She basically was a horrible T, but I couldn't see that because to me she was everything to me. In the end, she hurt me more than she helped me. My point is, the same thing could happen again with an actual T but its unlikely if you do your research on them. I don't see the need to end your relationship with LCM but I do think you deserve to continue your therapy with a great license T who has great boundaries.
Last edited by TheWell; Feb 02, 2015 at 08:10 PM.
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