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Originally Posted by SnakeCharmer
The fact the feelings hit you out of nowhere, with no evidence to back them up except the feelings themselves would seem to indicate the feelings, thoughts and beliefs about this are coming from your own insecurities, rather than anything about her actions toward you.
It's a symptoms of .. I don't know exactly. But it seems to happen to people with strong attachment issues, maybe it's a borderline trait (and I'm sorry, I don't know if that applies to you at all.).
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I have complex ptsd, so yeah, I guess borderline traits are evident. I think it is me too, not her. It's just such a powerful feeling of inadequacy and fear of disapproval. Thanks for your extended reply, it makes sense on an intellectual level. It's just hard to feel so pathetic.