Her empathy and love for me holds her accountable. She holds herself accountable. I hold her accountable. If she does something wrong, I call her out on it immediately. If she needs advice for what to do she asks her T for it or others.

Have you never asked advice from someone you love?

She is trial and error based. She has ideas and tries them out. Sometimes they don't work. Sometimes they do. She doesn't touch anything she knows could cause serious damage if she screws up like my trauma.