I occasionally talk to my Rabbi if I need spiritual guide ness but if I start referring to him as my dad (and I have abusive evil father) and then got extremely upset when he finally tells me he isn't my dad or if became deeply disturbed seeing him in public or was upset he has kids or having sex so bad I have to get drunk and he still wouldn't enforce the boundaries or puts a stop to it, then it becomes a problem.

Seeing whoever for whatever reason isn't an issue here, how it affects the person is an issue

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