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Originally Posted by divine1966
I occasionally talk to my Rabbi if I need spiritual guide ness but if I start referring to him as my dad (and I have abusive evil father) and then got extremely upset when he finally tells me he isn't my dad or if became deeply disturbed seeing him in public or was upset he has kids or having sex so bad I have to get drunk and he still wouldn't enforce the boundaries or puts a stop to it, then it becomes a problem.
Seeing whoever for whatever reason isn't an issue here, how it affects the person is an issue
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If you are seeing a rabbi, priest or other religious figure for spiritual issues that seems completely appropriate. Many on PC report trying to see a religious figure for some version of therapy. That's what I personally reject. (For example, the transgender teen in the news who committed suicide in part due to unethical Christian counseling.)
Do I agree with all of the choices OP is making ? No. I'm just pointing out that people are somehow more reactive to her situation when there are similar or worse situations all over the therapy boards.