Me too. I have this Wilde quote on my fridge: "Whenever people agree with me, I always feel I must be wrong."

Glad you've had an honest conversation with LCM, Growli. It's so hard when anyone with whom you have this kind of caring relationship (T or otherwise) is clumsy with your feelings, and I would be lying if I said I had never had a few vodkas after a tough session. Just know yourself, and keep safe