I told my T after our train wreck session that there was no way I could go through that and not be grounded afterwards. I am not willing to compromise time with my family by being dissociated. It wasn't a threat, it was just how I felt. I'm still processing what happened dec 4. I still have moments of anger about it. I would say mention it as it bothers you. Really hear out why he said what he did and examine how you feel about that.