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Originally Posted by d.o.a.
Hey,
I'm feeling really sad about the fact that my parents won't ever 'see' me.. They can't handle certain emotions, so they'll either ignore me or get mad at me if I express those feelings in their presence, or they'll try to talk those feelings into something they're not - they can't just BE there and listen. Such superficial relationships with my own parents when I can't share the bad times with them, only the good.. I know it's due to their own issues, but it kind of feels like they're using me, always expecting me to be in a good mood even if I'm not and take care of their feelings.. It sucks 
Just needed to share.. |
Sorry and I can very much relate , both my parents are completely emotionally unavailable and our relationship is very superficial. It sucks. My dad is also abusive and unkind
My t says that it is ok to limit my contact with them and they won't change and can't let it upset me all the time.
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