I'm glad you were able to tell her what seeing her in such a manner really knocked you out outta your orbit.. and then you did lose your shy like in the past... But as I said before you rebounded so very fast this time, as opposed to letting a week of unhealthy self harm and mental beating you had always been giving yourself in the past. This really turned around in less than 24 hours. So yes improvement !

I think maybe her coming back to the discussion a lil bit later is probably the fact that she isn't 100% ok with how she works with you and how her interaction isn't always in your best interest. I feel that its just that boundaries are wobbling and flipped back and forth alot, and yes many people have T's that have faltered in there care of clients. Sure its not right , but it happens.

Growli, This thread started out as so many threads of yours have, You come on posting because of her hurting /crushing you and not allowing you to be her real daughter and you embark on the typical self destructive road , It's always ugly and it scares people.. Everyone is on the other side of a screen and just hope that you somehow come thought it alive. So fear drives people to come across harshly, but I do think people are just trying to help.

Members go directly too the LC isn't a licensed T and really that is the first things people see " LC hurt you again,and now your drinking and whatever" so people get angry and worried. Most everyone does say you need a real T and I agree with that ,but that is going to happen when you are ready and only then. But really very few people are saying "get rid of LC" most just want you to have a licensed T also.

I have followed your threads for a long time. This is the first time I have seen one that evolves from the angry "your LC sucks you need a T " to a more understanding fashion, People have been sharing in depth their own struggles, Kinda like an angry lynch mob of knee jerk reactions just ran outta gas , maybe some sat back and considered maybe the entire picture, instead of zoning in on your LC and whether shes good for you....

It appears that you really don't have many friends you can lean on and find support with. So LC even though she is not always doing whats right for you, Shes there faults and all.

Anyway , just my opinion of course based on how this thread has changed.

The only problem I cant seem to wrap my head around ... Altho men can wear Yoga pants in the gym but outside of the gym? I have never see it , so that visual is just cracking me up But yeah that would certainly be a easy easy notice if he had a nice butt or not! lol