My parents are very bad acknowledging mine and my brothers needs and feelings. They either laugh make jokes or say mean things. Or do whatever the heck they want.

For example my dad didn't attend my daughter's wedding because he doesn't like my daughters dad (good man and excellent father that I always got along with) and because I am divorced (my parents are together but have a bad marriage how is that better than divorcing?) and my daughter was very hurt and he never apologized.

My dad is very verbally abuisive and toxic and even my T advised to keep interactions to a basic minimum. He caused me lots of damage. My mom is not abusive but all she cares is to please dad

I told them because they are still my parents and they would notice I am off at upcoming family functions

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