That's too funny SC. I am pretty much the same way. My Grandma is ALOT like janniebug's and she is always commenting on things. "You don't need that" and when I used to say I wanted to do this or that she'd say "Why?" I told her one time she sounded like my kids. LOL. I always try to laugh it off. I think sometimes people do things like that when they're insecure. Like the bullies at school -- if you're bullying someone else, it takes the attention away from what someone might be saying about you.