Finally, after years of a joint in one hand and a drink in the other, I knew I needed to get away from it all. It was ruling my life, it was no longer my own. I went to AA primarily but also got a lot of personal exploration and learning from al-anon.

Go where you feel comfortable. Don't worry if pot gets legal or not, cross that bridge when it comes. Take it a moment at a time and build from there. Being free from alcohol, pot and other illicit drugs is a better way to live. You can do it!