Thank you Curry for your kind post. I am sorry for what happened with you, and your daughters. My mom is a great lady, i cannot forget the way she sacrificed her life to raise my sister and i, i cannot hate her for a mistake she is making, but in the same time, i cannot see her going in a very wrong road and do nothing... She is letting the ship of our family sink, while she used to be the captain of this ship...
Cooking, shopping, hugs... are very sweet acts daughters do with their moms, but are secondary for me in the time being, since trust, respect, and honesty are missing in my current relationship with mom. I want these essential feelings to exist again, and all secondary activities will come along. I know maybe you wanted to make it easy for me and I thank you. I am sorry your daughters lived the misery my sister and I are living, and knowing that people tend to deny infidelity even when caught by their children made me less shocked by my mom's denials, and the way she want us to bless her infidelity and understand her
Thank you for your reply! Hope your life will be better and better!