My fiance deals with her own share of mental issues. History of abusive family and abusive relationships have left her in poor mental shape. Since meeting me she has become dependent on me. Her entire happiness is centered on me. She's convinced she has noone else despite the fact that my family loves her and most of her family is loving. So when I'm not around she's angry at me. If I have to work long hours we fight. If I go see friends we fight. And it's not that I'm leaving her, though it's also not like I'm going out and partying and leaving her by herself. I have meals or game nights with friends and family. And I invite her along. But her anxiety makes her a nervous wreck with people and she's convinced that no one cares for her so she won't join in. When we're together we do nothing. Everything becomes a trigger for her. I love her and I want to help and support her but I feel guilty if I go out and do anything. Am I the bad one in this? I don't know what to do or say.