I googled mine before our first session... of course I wanted to see if there were any ratings out there or something. Nada. All I found were listings, but no ratings. I did find an article though, that was quite interesting. She'd written and published a book. A memoir from her childhood (which was very unusual). I bought it, and read it. About half way through reading the book, I admitted to her that I googled her prior to meeting her, and once I decided she was the one I was going to check out, I ordered the book. We didn't take up a lot of time, but I did enjoy talking to her about it once I finished it. She asked me if I saw her any differently now that I'd finished the book. I said no... but then said yeah. I said "I see you as a real person...." Sometimes we forget that T's are just normal people too.
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