Yeah good or no good I would not pay for a T constantly treating me this way.
I guess I'm biased because I am highly judgemental of myself and sometimes it carries of onto others and no way is this helpful. I personally need to learn to be more understanding and compassionate. Like yeah, while I find it peculiar for anyone to call their parents daily instead of judging I might want to think about why she does that? Can it be helped? And more does it even need to be helped?
I feel like labeling your sister needy is
A a big jump since she doesn't know her (only hears your side of story, could be for several reasons they chat daily)
B none of her business
C not helpful to anyone.