To make my story as short as possible, my ex roomate (also ex friend) started dating an ex of mine that she knew I had been hurt by. Anyways first they were just friends then he started hanging out at our apartment, etc... I believe this bothered me most because she knew personal and intimate details of our relationship.
I only dated him for a few months but our break up hurt a lot. This was 4 years ago but he really marked me as the guy that made me suffer the most...
Buthappily I'm in love and in a really healthy relationship now for 3 years with a man that treats me the way I deserve!
I ended up leaving the apartment and closed a door on this friendship after an argument and basically not enjoying to arrive home and having an ex you hate on the sofa...
My issue is with her. She tried to date 2 friends of mine witch she loved to talk to me to know more about them. When she needed me she was the sweetest but when she didn't she would have "new friends". I was ok with this I just guesed she had issues...
Time has past since I've moved and not a word between us.
Today I see a facebook update and see they are still dating, why in the world does this still bother me so much?! Why can't I feel happy for them? Why do I over analyse these things?
Could I be wrong to have broken a relationship over a stupid guy? Why do I secretly hope he breaks her heart into pieces?
I wish I could be stronger and let these feelings wash away, but it's like I'm clinging on to something. ..
Ideas? Thanks