Hello Again!!!!
I just returned from therapy. I had every intention of asking her my personal question question, but I never got the chance. Due to yesterdays fiasco which you can read about here http://forums.psychcentral.com/gener...ly-option.html I did not have the time to ask my question. I was so busy dealing with other things that I did not have the time to memorize moogieotter's suggestion in order to prepare myself for the question.

That being said I feel very comfortable waiting to ask if it is appropriate for me to ask. I also may have the opportunity to get another clinician's input before I ask my T. My T will be away for two weeks. She always asks if I want an appointment with someone else and I always say no. This time I said, "the way I am feeling right now, my answer has to be Yes I would like an appointment with another clinician. I 'accidently' met one this morning I immediately "clicked with" and need to know if she is available. I also need her to read what I have written (I gave my T a thing entitled "a bit about me"), so that she is not entering a session with me blind." So I will use this opportunity I have been given to get another clinicians opinion on what is and isn't appropriate to ask a therapist.