I am feeling confused and hurt. Over the last 3 years of of a 30 year marriage my husband has slowly turned away from sex. At first I thought it was due to the prostate problems he was seeing a doctor for, but then that cleared up and still no sex or sex once every six months. BUT this is the catcher I still by accident, usually walk in on him, find him looking at porn. This hurts me of course as I feel he is wanting them over or instead of me. WHY? HELP!! STOP THE PAIN!! WHY?