I'm beginning to feel as though it's natural in a relationship. Some people say their significant other hasn't done such things but how do you know for sure? You approach relationships with trying to give your full trust. When you trust someone that gives them space to easily hide things. Some people have become elaborate in their lies and sneaking around. I'm always on guard. I look at my current relationship and if I were not on guard I'd see a lot of instances bypassing me. He is sweet, gentle, caring, and he goes out of his way to buy me things to make my life more comfortable. He has involved his family. He talks about the future at times. It is much of what you'd ask for in a guy and in response you feel as though you can trust and give a person space. Except, I did that and find that he is wandering around with another female in his spare moments. So what gives? Why play house with someone and play with their head?