Thanks for the talk, it helps knowing that others have just lost the desire for sex, but not the love for the other person. My husband and I have talked about this topic many times over and while I know he still looks at porn from time to time the one thing I have asked of him is to not let me know or see it..... as it brings up my own issues and triggers my DID. But he isn't to good at hiding his looking from me and I have to wonder WHY when he knows how much it kills me from the inside out.