I can't say I have a lot of experience either way. I will say that the man I'm with now has somewhat similar issues to mine, and we understand each other in a way to where we can build each other up. We both have our bad times. Sometimes it's me; sometimes it's him. We just try our best to be there for the other person because we love each other that much. That experience leads me to think that having someone "like me" has actually been much more of a good thing than a bad thing. Then again, maybe I'm just really lucky that I have someone as sensitive and caring as my boyfriend.