Thanks for the input I really appreciate it. Going out with friends I'm ok with as long as I know who they are at the very least. When I go out I tell her exactly whom I'm with and where I'm going which is the proper way to go about things. We are both in our early 30's with no kids which makes things easier if things go south. Do you think as a husband I have the right to ask her to look into her phone just to see her response?