I just received a letter in the post, from the head of A-Levels (UK college), stating that I need to go in (with my mum) to attend a disciplinary hearing..

This is the letter I was sent;

"Following concerns expressed by your tutors, I am writing to advise you that you need to attend a disciplinary hearing on Thursday, 12 February 2015 at 3:30pm.

Please report at reception and ask for ___ (head of A-Levels). Your progress tutor ___ will also attend the meeting.

You can have someone to support you (a representative or member of the Student Union) if your parents/carers are unable to attend. Please let us know in good time.

If you do not attend and do not notify us, the hearing will still take place in your absence.

Yours sincerely,

___"

I'm actually lost for words. I sent a photo to my boyfriend, who suggested that it might be a generic letter for this kind of thing, but all of the meetings I have attended before have been called Support meetings and the whole letter was written differently. This time feels way more serious..

The part that has got me raging, is the fact I had a meeting with my progress tutor on Tuesday. She told me she'd be ringing my mum to arrange a meeting to check up on how I'm doing and what is happening (in regards to my mental health). I thought fine, it's a meeting, I've had a few and they're straight forward "keep college in the loop" kind of meetings..

This one is different, I know it is. My progress tutor didn't tell me about it, she didn't ring my mum and I'm currently waiting for an email back from her and my therapist lady regarding this whole thing..

I'm so.. just baffled. I don't know what to think about this.

(This is my other thread, outlining what happened in the meeting I had with my progress tutor and other things http://forums.psychcentral.com/schoo...-teachers.html)