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Old Feb 06, 2015, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted by growlycat View Post
I see it as just part of the process. You work through your issues in part through this relationship. I mean, you are essentially hiring someone to manipulate you into healthier behavior and thinking.
This is exactly what I did not sign up for. It is fine with me if it is what others want. I do not. I have found a way to make the therapist useful - but it does not involve, to the extent I see it and can stop it, the therapist manipulating me into healthier behavior and thinking. When the therapist tries this sort of ****, I refuse to play along. Not what I hired the woman for.
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Thanks for this!
growlycat