Oh, hon. I am so sorry you are going through this. Is there anyone you can reach out to? Anywhere you can stay? He needs serious help but until he gets help...significant help...you need to remove yourself and your children from this situation. Maybe he can get help (therapy,anger management and meds) and things can work out between you but for now this does not sound like a safe situation. Seek out help for yourself and children ...a situation like this will cause pain and scars on those who have to deal with someone like this as well.

((hugs))