thank you and this is really a no mystrey so i am not sure the reason i stayed other then to prove to me i am worth more and was the that controlled my life, even if it was not the smartest thing to do it was done none the less ,and as of 2day the end was what was done ,the end to the **** this 2day and feel lied to used anga and disappointment and im sure he feels the same but this is all the way it is and i will not let myself be unhappy