I feel like people here think SE, somatic experiencing, and the hand holding my T does with me, is wrong or is going to backfire on me. But no one will post that. Is it because that kind of therapy is unusual, or has anyone had bad experiences with it?

Reading posts about how Ts can not make up what we missed make me wonder. Is my T naive? She truly, honestly believes, not that she can do over my past, but that she can calm my nervous system and enable new neural pathways to form in my brain. She says we are working on my attachment issues in this way. Holding my hand is the link to the change in my case. T says she is not going anywhere and she cares deeply for me, and says she's giving me love, as in the book, Love 2.0. Did anyone read it?

My T lets me pay less than half her normal fee now, she's not in it for the money. I feel that it's working so I shouldn't care what others think. I just feel like a freak and feel alone because hardly anyone comments on the kind of therapy I do.