Specially when you are a naive in social relations and when you are unable to read people properly.
I was told not so long ago, follow your natural instinct. How to know if it's the natural instinct the one is talking to you and not your paranoia.

That's it, I'm very very confused. This is the price you have to pay for relating to people.

All I can day about the topic is the time. I mean as long as you are with the person you will know her/his better. I'm neither sure about it.

Is it possible that I want to control what it cannot be controlled?