It´s not that much about I don´t want them to tell me about their life, it´s the fact that I already from the beginning has this feeling of being somewhat bothered by their personal lifes. Without them telling me, I see them in a nice office and they have a career. I know if they´re married or not and if they have children just by a quick check on public search sites.

I see them, not all but some, wearing nice clothes, having nice things as new computers and so on. It´s much information without me even asking or them telling me. I mean, these things give me these feelings. I think it´s nice if the T shares something from her life, as what music she likes or TV shows she watches. More of private things, I´ve never experienced a T telling me about. I mean, telling about a grand-child or so.

I don´t like having those feelings, perhaps it has something to do with me seeing myself out of a low worth. At the same time I actually am less successful, being unemployed an so on.