Clementine, Thanks so much for sharing your experience! I have been in therapy one year now and over the last several months have begun to notice an increasing attachment to my T. It was something I feared from the beginning. I admire him but lately I miss him and worry about how I will cope when we finally terminate. I can't look him in the eyes for fear he will know. I feel so vulnerable because I have never relyed on someone this way before. I don't want to go back to the me from last year. I will never go to another T. I can't bring up transference I would die of mortification and am not ready to terminate. What if he thinks it's time to terminate before I do. I would feel hurt rejected. I'm so disappointed that I have allowed myself these fears and neediness. I will be interested in what others have to say. Thank You!