My first husband cheated, every single person that we knew and family too would have neverrrrrrrrrr imagined he would do such a thing. We divorced.

I dated a fellow a year or so later .. I was consumed with fear that he would /might cheat.. I destroyed that relationship with my inability to just have faith in it.

My current husband and I had both been cheated on before, we know the pain it caused, We promised we would never do that to each other.. yes there is always a chance he could. But I trust him 100%. You either have faith and love for a person or you don't.

Some people just suck and should stay single and play.

Talk to a Therapist about this and process it, examine the relationship, learn what a healthy relationship should be. Not everyone is unfaithful. But once burned? you need time to heal and learn how to love again.