yes try to think of the adventrous boy in him. I am so glad now they have escape handles in cars. I am very sorry for all your losses but try to think of the good times with him and all the others. while it is hard to lose anyone it is especially hard with young children. senseless I think but God knows what he is doing. I lost my only granddaughter when she was 3 months old. I know she was very young and not alot of memories of her but the few we had I cherish daily.