I don't know why some ladies can't just let guys know that they like them. Why not let them know. Most guys really don't know if a girl likes them so it is worth a try. You may not get the response that you want but is it worth a try to you? Just be ready and guard your feelings if you are sensitive.

I have never heard of a fix for depression as it is something to be treated and kept from getting worse. I don't know if you can start over with some people as sometimes it just doesn't work. This is when it is time to start over and make new friends and bring what you have learned with you into the new friendship. Best wishes.