It was fine. It did feel like something a mom would do. We have somewhat of a "maternal" relationship. Since there is no attraction on either side, it definitely did not feel sexy. It was much more practical. I'm used to changing in locker rooms around other women, so I don't feel particularly modest about my body. I wanted to ask for an objective opinion about whether or not to try removing my scar, and she felt like a safe person to ask. I feel pretty comfortable-- emotionally and physically-- with my T. She has never shown me any part of her body, but she has told me that she has scars & stretch marks from her pregnancies, so she can relate to the way I feel about my surgery scars. I like when she relates in that way.