Thanks Direction,Perna and Fuzzybear for your comments. I have no problem seeing the good-I see it everyday, all over. It's just that with the things I gripe about-why am I the ONLY one who says something about it? Everyone else is too nice to. I'm not a nice person.
I remind myself of Louis on "Malcolm in the Middle" sometimes.
I'm not sure if that's a good or bad thing-but she had a big mouth and I've been referred to as being "mouthy". I only wish I could calm my butt down is all.