You have to let go of the hurt. That won't do anything for you. If you're hearing the same thing over and over again, it's probably true.

Everyone says something that bothers someone else. The thing is, you have to be aware of the other person's reaction. You can't be self-centered and assume you're delightful.

If someone stops talking as much, if someone seems annoyed, ask them why. Don't assume. You'll never learn unless you ask. Don't do it in a self-centered way either. Be genuinely interested in what's going on in the other person's head. Don't let yourself be guided back to talking about yourself. Get to the bottom of it.

Then, when they answer, whatever you do, don't take it personally. Don't say exactly what you said about what your friend told you - that hurt YOU. Because she wouldn't have said that if you hadn't already hurt HER. Like I said, that is very selfish behavior.