I really suck at judging people. I care and give people the benefit of the doubt but always end up burned. My sister always tells me "it doesn't matter to a hungry lion if you are a vegetarian " so I end up on running scenarios and situations by her or a few other who have proven to be there and trustworthy. They do tell me I need to listen to my gut and learn to trust it, but when I think I do I always hear wow you really don't know how to read people do you? So it is very hard!!!!