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Originally Posted by guilloche
Thanks MagicalPrince - that's a good point. My T is so expensive though, I kind of feel like I need to feel good about it, otherwise, why spend all that money.  You know what I mean? If he were a lot cheaper, I think it would be easier to just relax a bit and go with the process, or just enjoy having a chance to go talk to someone every week. But it's so much, it's the biggest thing in my budget.
Thanks everyone alot to think about...  |
No that's actually perfectly reasonable. Listen to your heart on this one. Therapy can get worse before it gets better but if you're this ambivalent about it, it's almost guaranteed that you aren't getting much out of it. Therapy is there to work with your feelings, if you don't feel much of anything... it's probably not working. Money is a real concern and you are making a purchase. Better to find a T who feels truly worth the expense. I don't mean to be cutthroat about it, but I have a feeling you didn't actually need to be told this, you already know.