Direction, i spent about 16 years with these kinds of games concerning my children and their father. It would take pages to tell you the crap he pulled on us. Do what is best for the children. I always turned away and turned the other cheek and the girls and I have a wonderful relationship (most of the time) and he is alone, with his younger wife, and lonely now. xoxoxo pat

p.s. it isn't about HER, it's about the children. Always remember that..........she's not even a blip on your radar of life..........trust me on this one, love pat