I don't know how to start this thread.....so I'll just ramble on........

I have a difficultly trusting ppl with things I disclose to them about my life, worries,.....everyday matters. There are some ppl in my life that I "trust" but I know that they share my "life problems"...etc with other ppl. I have my thoughts or interpretations on why they do this...... . Maybe they think they are helping me, perhaps they're lives are boring and my "life problems" are more interesting,.......... . Lack of boundaries and respect comes to mind often. I hate being peged as the "mentally ill" person in social gatherings.