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Originally Posted by Helpbritt1
10 years ive been here for her,,,therapist trips..rehab s paid for,,,esuicide attempts.,mental hospital stays ....emotional support ,,finacial support. My love..my prays...and in the end she sits telling therapists today in a family session I abused her...sad to say another way to take the blame off her self and make herself the victim...I cant do this anymore..and no matter what happens I know ive done my best..I now need to detach with love,,my heart is broken
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I can' t comment on the abuse allegations, but I can comment on you helping your daughter. Or maybe I should say My mother helping me?
My mother loves and supports me. She always has and probably always will. BUT!!!! There came a time in our lives where she had to walk away. She had to let me go. I had to grow up and be responsible for me. I needed to be an adult..
Well, now that I think about it, maybe I can comment on the abuse. For a very long time "in my eyes" I was abused by both my parents. They would not have seen it the same way I did. I actually had a therapist who convinced me the way I grew up was abusive. Today, I do not see it that way at all. My mom did the best she could with what she had. Today she is my best friend.