psychmajor18, was the hand holding from the same T you mentioned in your other post, who was abusive? If it is, I would strongly suggest talking to this T again about it but more in terms of what you would be looking for in the hand holding. Would it be a test to see if this T will cross the same boundaries? Or is it genuinely something you feel would help? Would it end up being a trigger?
While you mentioned having "taken care of" that previous situation, it sounds like there is still a LOT to be worked out emotionally around it.
I'm glad this T is holding his boundry of no touch at this point...