Yes, it definately happens.

Been thinking about the why...Why they close their eyes:

1) afraid to be beaten by husband

2) glad someone else has taken over the role of lover to a man they hate

3) afraid to "rock the boat" and lose safety of a home

4) they think it happens in most families - the cycle continues

5) they learned at an early age that it's better to say quiet

6) they are WAY screwed up and jealous of the relationship. Ugh.

Anyone wanna add to the list?

All of the above are NOT excuses. This should never happen. All parents
are supposed to do..the ONE thing they are supposed to do...their ONE job...
is PROTECT THE CHILD. Jeepers. It's friggin' simple, isn't it???

Grrrrrr

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