I've been thinking about you all day and hoping you are somewhere safe.

I felt very physically threatened by my ex-wife - it was so important for me to listen to her that she would block my way, tug at me. When I locked my self in the bathroom - she would try to unlock it and push her way in. When it first started I never looked at her the same.

I know some of you are going to say she weighted 100 and you were double her size. It doesn't matter especially when you flash back to a verbally abuse father who you feared.

Anyway that might be a little off topic, but might give you some insight why I feel so strongly about how wrong it is for a man or woman to use any type of physical fear to get their way.