I think that both of you are there. Put that on the agenda... lol...

I think that the adult has a right to demand certain things and the child does to... though perhaps in a less formal way. I do not know... It depends on your needs and your childhood. I think that you can/will talk of this if you wish and it would make good conversation but sometimes there are both the adult and child involved.

What do you possibly recognise from your needy childhood?

Yes you are nervous but ... you were just saying what was going on in your head. Time to sort it out. I think you will both do alright.