I'm always afraid to ask my T personal questions but she usually answers them. The most personal question that I first emailed and then asked her directly in the next session was "is everything all right in your marriage?" At first she said yes but quickly she changed it to no. I had a hunch but hoped I was wrong. I will remember that conversation forever. I felt like my heart was breaking for her though later I learned it was a mutual decision, at least I think so. That was a couple of years ago.

Recently, another question popped out. "Are you happy now that you're divorced?" I didn't think she would answer honestly, but I know she did.