I have DID, and his looking at porn triggers it big time and it's hell for us both when the DID is triggered, so it's not as simple to just say you have this time to do this.... nor does he use porn on a regular basis. The whole issue here is that If my husband is going to keep up the porn viewing that he must KEEP IT FROM ME AND MY ALTERS, MY DID. Otherwise I fear I may have to leave the house or our marriage for my own sanity and safety.