Just because you have fantasies or see things in porn and it turns you on, it doesn't mean you are "in to". Some things are just fantasies and our bodies respond to them. Just because you are turned on, it doesn't mean much. When I saw threesome in porn I sure got turned on, but never in a million years I would I want or imagine any woman on this planet to come near man I love.

Getting turned on by stuff is a bodily reaction and often had nothing to do with reality. You are only 21, focus on other stuff in life

Ps the fact that you want to be dehumanized and mistreated by sexual partners and you never even had sex yet would need to be looked at professionally. But everyone else already said that many times

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