Yep. I struggle with this too. I used to take time to look nice and didn't leave the house without makeup and such. Now days I feel like I have to make myself even shower. I rationalize that all I've done is sit in the same spot on my laptop but it just feels like it drains me. Its not that I wanna be dirty. I even have a new, big reason that I SHOULD take better care of myself!! I'm in a new relationship of 6 months. I think he's seen me made up, hair fixed like 5 times. I've let the housework go too. I'm so lucky and very thankful that he is super supportive and loves me for who I am AND who I want to be!!